Alia Bhatt
on 13/05/17, 3:35 am

6 Signs You Are With A Woman Who Is Emotionally Unavailable

Raise your hands if you too came here just to confirm whether your girlfriend has the following traits or not. Don't give me that sheepish look dude, bros don't need words to understand each other. At times there are moments when even our mothers start doubting our friendship and think that we were only a step away from becoming a couple. Well, let's save that conversation for some other time and discuss a global concern that even scientists can't f**king figure out – women. But, trust me if there is anything harder than rocket science or women, it has to be being in love with a woman who is emotionally shut. 

10 Signs Of Dating Emotionally Unavailable Woman

Are you still blaming yourself for that ‘fancy-candlelight-dinner-with-a-ring-inside-a-champagne-glass' proposal gone wrong? Well, if you f**ked up, that's another story, but if she rejected you on the grounds of being unable to love you, because of some reason that's hard to digest, she is probably carrying emotional baggage. Even if she shows interest in you later, calling you a nice guy, take it as a red flag because chances are it might not last long. However, don't feel bad because exceptions are always there and you can be an epitome of that section. So, just to be doubly sure, here are some signs to identify where your girlfriend or date is emotionally unavailable or not.  

10 Signs Of Dating Emotionally Unavailable Woman

1. She Is Least Interested In Knowing About You

You might have been in a relationship for months now, but if she still doesn't acknowledge you in front of her friends or family, boy you are heading nowhere. Further, she wouldn't be too keen to know about you either. Although, chances of this situation are very bleak, it's not that it doesn't happen.

2. She Is Very ‘Casual' About Relationships

There is no denying the fact that we men are criticized for having a casual approach towards things. But, when it comes to relationship, ladies, we are damn serious. But with her, things will be the opposite, her actions will be very casual and unpredictable. There will be days when she will have sex with you and then the next day, disappear suddenly and not talk to you for a couple of days in a stretch. Casual sex becomes the only thing left to be mooched off the relationship. 

10 Signs Of Dating Emotionally Unavailable Woman

3. Bro, You're A Rebound 

Guys, it's no rocket science. If a relationship lasted for a really long time, then getting out of that zone after a breakup will take some time too. And we all know that when someone gets into a relationship immediately after a breakup, it's possibly a rebound. Hint: She would spend more time cribbing about her ex than having areal conversation with you. 

4. She Will Be Available Only At Her Convenience

Are you always the one who walks that extra mile to make things work? Congratulations, you've got your answer. While she would expect you to be there 24*7 for her, when you need her, she will be unavailable, just like her emotions. Terms like ‘adjustment' or ‘time' would probably not make it to her dictionary while she is dating you. 

10 Signs Of Dating Emotionally Unavailable Woman

5. They Crave Attention All The Time

She knows how to pamper you and insult you at the same time. Such women are for real. Every time you need anything from her, she will reward you as ‘The Best Boyfriend In The World'. But, the moment work is done, she will shun you and pretend that she can't do anything for you. Further, because of their growing jealousy they will often try to separate you from your friends. But folks, don't fall for it, remember the code “Bros before hoes”. 

6. They Are Highly Commitment Phobic 

For them ‘Commitment' will be the word they dread the most. Even if you jokingly mention that you want to take things to another level, it will scare the hell out of them. Soon after, they will start finding reasons, making excuses or setting agendas for you to follow. In short, she will try to control you.  

10 Signs Of Dating Emotionally Unavailable Woman